Recent content by amex4

come to think of it. valid point on your end. i do need some work on my articulation/writing skills. thanks.

this is exactly what i am looking for. just a grocery list of suggestions on how i should proceed if things can not be turned around. like i said; i am not quitting on this or my child and hope for the best. i gave a very poor first impression and that was my fault. my initial post was...

good point - indeed it is trivial. thank you for your feedback. i agree - the priority and most important aspect of this is focusing on our child. in terms of the marriage if you were to look at it on a chart right now, its hit bottom and has been making lower lows. so on the flip side, it...

forgot to mention you also have some great points and input there. thank you again for taking time to post here. i appreciate it.

thank you for your positive contribution to this thread i appreciate it. i completely agree with what you said. the only difference with our scenario is a little bit of the personality factor. some of the "differences" between us can become very irritating over time, based on the...

you are totally missing the point. that is not what i am trying to do. i increased her account by $450K. i am legally entitled to half of that. however i do NOT wish to take it. based on the disparity of our incomes, my actual child support would not nearly be as much over time to the present...

that is what life is all about; trying to achieve certain goals. you should do a better job of not extrapolating your own personal issues or hangups onto others. i don't need to see a shrink and just because i use all lower case letters does not mean i need to "write better." however i concur...

divorce is not something that is imminent. but we are definitely at the lowest point of our relationship right now. i concur with your comment with respect to bigger problems being out there. i should have prefaced the fact that i would be willing to hang in there if not for our kid alone. i...

third hand smoke is a new phenom that can potentially be the worst one yet. so even when a smoker steps outside your house and is ingesting a cigarette, as the cigarette is burning and they exhale, the detonation of all those toxic chemicals/poisons come out in a smoke like cloud from within the...

and by they way what you describe here is an example of second hand smoke. i am talking about third hand smoke. google is your friend.

based on the "Marriage - just don't" thread on here that is over 70 pages long, i do not think this is an unreasonable inquiry. that is the whole purpose of a message forum (to exchange experiences, thoughts, input amongst like minded individuals) or perhaps i am mistaken and just won't post...

this is very relative to trading; just give me a moment to get there. so about 5 years ago now i decided to put on the biggest trade of my life; marriage. imho the type of woman you date has a completely different criteria than the woman you marry. there were a couple of concerns i had going...