Quote from spect8or:
You've picked on me for this since you first read my posts, yet, do you ever stop to think that if it wasn't for the internet I wouldn't be saying the things I say at all? In other words (and I know you won't believe me), in 'real life', I probably am that paragon of tolerance you think everyone should be, because I don't ever argue politics or religion with anyone, 'cos those are industrial strength friendship breakers and, contrary to your continual accusations, there's nothing I enjoy more than friendly and pleasant relationships with people
News flash...I have NOT "picked on you since (I) first read (your) posts".
Think back buddy. I was perhaps your biggest fan. I told you too many times to think about how I considered you the most clever and well spoken guy on ET.
Somewhere along the line you decided to take on the present persona of obnoxious provocateur. Do I think you are (in real life) a pleasant and reasonable guy? Yes. Not the abrasive brat you have so much fun playing here.
But if you want to play a part, then don't you expect to get the responses you ask for?
Same with me. Same with a lot of us who waste too much time in chit chat.
For example, while I really do think GWB is incompetent to be President. I don't think it matters enough to get in a tizzy about. But sometimes it's fun to ruffle feathers. And I was being honest when I said I may vote for him anyway. If he makes more sense to me in November than Kerry does, I well vote for him. (Hard to imagine now, but anything is possible....November is still a ways off).
You want to call me a 'liberal". That's fine. I think it;s funny. I know people who think I am a conservative. It's all relative.
I think it's just a bit bizarre when people call "liberals" socialists or pinkos or communists. I think it's equally bizarre when "conservatives" get called fascists and nazis. Virtually none of this is true. Just mud slinging. But there ARE indeed people who are real Nazis. And Communists too.. But not the Kerry or Bush supporters. The real nazis...the real communists hate them both. And are enemies of the US. Not people like Candletrader or Maverick or me or you or any of the usual suspects here.
Bottom line D.....I believe you are in fact a decent guy. You get your kicks being the class jerk, that is fine. How many people buy the act, I don't know. But if you don't want your act "bought" then why play the part?
I don't really believe it bothers you that I have mentioned my son. He is who I love most in the world. He is also an exceptional kid and in an exceptional situation. And the fact that he has no mom makes our relationship extra special. So if I over-do my attention to him, well what can I say? Parenthood comes with strong emotions. And I believe you understand that. If not, ask around.
So now what? Do you prefer I think of you as the intelligent and decent human being I really believe you are? Or would you rather I react to you as the foul mouthed hateful, anti-everything and everyone character you play here on ET? And does it matter?
It's all just a soap opera for guys (mostly guys...a sprinkling of females) who are in a profession that gives us an extraordinary amount of down time. ET gives us a break from the boredom of waiting for our chances to trade to come along. Nothing more or less.
I have spoken to guys on the phone who I argue with relentlessly here on ET. In real direct communication (in other words, with NO AUDIENCE), we all get along fine. I have never had any conversation with a single ET guy that wasn't a friendly one. If I really did not like someone, I would just ignore them. Not argue with them for an audience. It's just entertainment.
I even like and respect Max in a lot of ways. I have said this many times before. If he hates me (and I actually think he really does), well that is not my problem. It is his, and I hope he can get over it.
Peace,

RS