I see volume of 2,283,428 for ES last friday.
If I then assume that arbitrage algos, HFT algos, and regular algos account for 90% of that volume, that leaves me with volume of 228,243 to be potentially attributed to retail traders.
If I then assume that 90% of this volume is retail daytraders and not retail swing traders, and each retail daytrader makes two round trip daytrades, then this implies only 102,709 retail daytraders from the daily volume.
This figure seems small given this figure is not for the U.S. but for the entire world.
You are suffering from data analysis paralysis.
don't analyze trivial things.
Focus on the important things.
day volume of 2.2m is a lot.
It is quite usual for the volume to be < 1 million / day.