I've always wondered about FX and the volume of the bid and ask.
Remember Roseanne Barr?
She once said she had anorexia dyslexia, her friends told her she was fat enough, but she didn't think so.
Are you sure the set ups you see are telling you the right way to go, or do you get caught up in the emotion and see the trade go one way, when your set up is telling you the opposite?
When Bracket Trader and Autotrader were being developed, some posters to the board were asking for opposite buttons, because of the very action you are observing.