The one in BOLD.
My understanding is LIMIT orders are sent to the exchange but STOP orders are held by the broker for the following reason. As recent as 10 or 15 years ago, it was relatively easy to gun the stops. All you needed was just 1 lot order to trigger all the stops placed above or below major price pivots like HOD or LOD. In fact, this worked so well that I've incorporated into my strategy for a long time. Unfortunately, it doesn't work anymore. Now you need a few 100 fills (or so it seems) before those stops get triggered. Anyway, that's what I've been told and it does corroborate with my own trading of late.
The fact that you are noticing this is indication of progress. Your paranoia is proof you are really trading,
Just keep it close to your chest , sir, or they will label you.