Quote from Maverick74:
If my kids want to go to college, they are going to have to earn their way, I ain't GIVING them shit. And I certainly don't want my government, my tax dollars to GIVE them anything.
My instincts on this, developed over living longer than you Mav, and also having a son and two step children, tell me that you will change your tune when the time comes.
Your statement is based on your logic of today alone. When you have kids, logic goes out the window. Love takes it's place. There is nothing less logical in the world than love.
Love for a child is the strongest love there is. Therefore the most illogical emotion.
It is a very unusual parent that will not do everything in their power to make things as good as possible for their children.
The stories you hear about single mothers working three jobs....scrubbing floors at 4 am to send their kids to college are very real. Happens all the time all over the world.
Maverick, don't make promises to yourself you can't possibly know if you can keep or not. Don't make assumptions on how you will feel about issues you don't face until you do face them.
You can tell us what you would or would not have done if you were the one making the decision to bomb Hiroshima. Or invade Iraq. But your were not, and will never be in those positions.
Chances are (I hope for your sake) that you one day WILL be in the position to make the choice of whether to assist your progeny with their education. When that day comes, see how you really feel. Meanwhile, I think you should print out your post, put it in your safe deposit box, and in whatever number of years it is that the issue becomes relevant, take it out, look at it, and see if you find out that life changes as it goes on. Find out then if your attitudes change with a change of circumstances.
My money is on you softening up. Hell, I would lay odds.
Nothing to be ashamed of Mav. "Soft" is a four letter word, but not a dirty word. I know your militant conservatism tells you it is now, but give it some time. Or, ask around.
Hapaboy, one of my other favorite "conservatives" just became a dad. Ask him what he would NOT do for his child. Fatherhood has no political boundaries. It is a true equalizer.
Peace,

RS