i don't agree with you. traders need to discuss what the market trend is going to be, what are the next steps. it's not like traders chat for hours like a normal person. plus the chat happens after hours to discuss what will happen tomorrow etc.
whenever in doubt read success stories of other traders, there will always be hundered of losses and one big win, which motivates me to go on everyday.
you are not a trader until you realise profit and loss are a part of being a trader. once you invest in something there's a 50-50 chance, there's no sure shot answer in a trade.